"When should I wean my baby off the pacifier?" I get this question daily, and it’s a great one!
As a pacifier inventor and safety advocate, my answer might surprise you.
Let’s explore the official recommendations before diving into my perspective.
What the Experts Say About Pacifier Weaning
- AAPD (American Academy of Pediatric Dentistry) recommends weaning by 3 years old.
- AAP (American Academy of Pediatrics) suggests pacifier weaning between 2 to 4 years old.
Why these timelines? Research shows that:
- Oral development issues (like open bite) are more likely with pacifier use if 36 months or older.
- Posterior crossbite risk increases at approximately 18 months of age with pacifier use.
- Risks of acute otitis media (middle ear infections) can begin as early as 6 months.
My Take on When to Wean Off the Pacifier
While these recommendations provide a broad timeline, your child's needs—and your parenting style—matter too. Pacifiers have proven medical benefits like reducing the risk of SIDS.
Here’s how I approach it:
1. Weaning Around 6-12 Months
If you feel ready, weaning within the first year can work well. The pacifier's SIDS protection benefits are strongest in this window, and babies are generally more adaptable before toddlerhood's big emotions set in.
2. Weaning by 18 Months
This is my favorite sweet spot for pacifier weaning. It’s more conservative than even the dentists recommend, but here’s why I love it:
- You avoid those intense toddler emotions that emerge after 2 years old.
- By this age, you have more soothing tools for bedtime and comfort. It's easier to get them in on the prep (picking out a comfort item).
- Avoiding more oral development issues- timing is the biggest factor.
When to Wait to Wean Off the Pacifier
Life happens! Here are times when it’s okay to delay pacifier weaning:
- Teething or illness
- Major life changes (e.g., moving, a new sibling, or big transitions)
Remember: One big change at a time! Give your child space to adjust before removing their comfort item.
Every Child is Different
The best time to wean is when it feels right for you and your little one. Every family dynamic is unique, and there’s no one-size-fits-all answer.
If you’re wondering how to tackle pacifier weaning—whether before age 1 or after—grab my free Pacifier Weaning Guide for step-by-step help.